someone commented the other day that i almost never seem to repeat the same outfit twice. “you must shop a lot!” said she, almost accusingly. “so how many pieces of clothing do you have, anyway?”
once i had brushed aside the implication that i was a flighty little ding-dong for being fashionable, the question intrigued me. how much IS there in my closet? i tried doing a mental inventory — this many jeans, this many skirts, this many dresses, scratch the 5, carry the 2, take off my shoes to count on my toes, etc — until i finally gave up due to sheer numbers and failing memory.
what thinking about it made me realize:
- i have a lot of clothes. this doesn’t necessarily make me a complete fashion ho. i have a stable of pieces i’ll rely on to hold outfits together (my wardrobe glue, upon which i will expound in another post), and i like getting a new piece or two to liven things up every once in a while. i am easily bored, and i love trends.
- none of my clothes are at all expensive. we have all seen my love for/addiction to the thrift store, and i mostly shop online otherwise, mostly because i can find a coupon most days, and partly because then i don’t have to drag bf out with me and have him make long-suffering faces while i try things on.
- all of my clothes get worn. this can be incredible to believe, but there are no orphans in this closet; the only items that have yet to be worn are the ones thrifted out of season that i have to wait to wear.
- therefore, you, first paragraph someone, can suck it. i will not be made to feel guilty about caring about how i look. and you shouldn’t either.
some people subscribe to the philosophy that a small wardrobe of classic, well-made pieces is best. that’s cool. some people subscribe to the one-in-one-out policy. that’s cool too. my budget doesn’t allow for a lot of expensive stuff, and i often cull-and-purge, but that’s mostly a space issue. teeny tiny studio = nil closet space. to each his own, yes? as long as you’re managing your finances and you’re not going broke on fashion, i don’t see any harm with having a little fun with your look.*
now that i’ve thought about it this much, though, i’m actually curious as to the actual numbers. i’m going to hazard a guess that the list goes, in order of number of appearances in the wardrobe:
- cardigans
- tops
- dresses
- jackets
- skirts
- jeans
- other miscellaneous bottoms (pants, walk shorts, etc)
your turn? ๐
*i wish i’d thought of this while i was actually talking to that someone, of course, instead of my lame reply of “oh. yeah.” and a weak smile. homegirl is not good at the thinking on her feet thing.